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friend update: with my encouragement, she will "maybe" send him an email in a couple hours. stay tuned! -- nm

Posted by kare (aka kare) Jul 8 '09, 13:43

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Somewhere in there, she should say "man, I'm having trouble walking today." -- nm - Dr.Vermin Jul 8, 13:56
i think she should just cool it and wait another day. - Guy Jul 8, 13:46 19
- my advice to her was to quit worrying about how she'd come off to him. why fear seeming needy or clingy? why not just be yourself? - kare Jul 8, 13:48 18
  - stopping yourself from broadcasting a negative aspect of your personality early on in a relationship is not "playing games", imo - Guy Jul 8, 13:53 3
    - i shared my neuroticism. quite a bit. how he reacted and how we made it thru was one way in which i ultimately knew he was a keeper. -- nm - kare Jul 8, 13:55 2
      - fair enough. :) -- nm - Guy Jul 8, 13:57 1
        
        as b. says above, everyone is different. :) -- nm - kare Jul 8, 13:59
  - she should send him flowers -- nm - znufrii Jul 8, 13:49 1
    - heh, i thought that when i just skimmed that thread. -- nm - b. Jul 8, 13:54
  - the thing is, she will *seem* needy and clingy, because she's being needy and clingy. - loosilu Jul 8, 13:49 9
    - Calling someone you slept with the next day is needy and clingy? That's effing retarded. (nm) - musubi Jul 8, 13:55 2
      - calling them with purpose is not. calling them because you're worried they won't call you is. -- nm - Guy Jul 8, 13:59
      - no, flipping out is. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:56
    - i see nothing wrong with reaching out to him, considering how their relationship is going. (question: would he seem needy and clingy if he contacted - kare Jul 8, 13:51 4
      - I know nothing about him, but I know that she's flipping out, which is the needy/clingy part. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:52 3
        
        she's checking with her friends, not waiting outside his office. - b. Jul 8, 13:58 1
        
        she needs to chill before she talks to him. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 14:03
        
        yeah, its hard to hide that part, no matter how innocuous the email is -- nm - Guy Jul 8, 13:56
    - both of you are correct -- nm - zork Jul 8, 13:50
  - *endorses kare's advice* -- nm - TFox Jul 8, 13:49
  - Worse case, she got laid and he got lost. Better off in the long run. -- nm - Will Hunting Jul 8, 13:49
oh gawd, either do it or don't. waiting two hours won't accomplish anything -- nm - zork Jul 8, 13:45 2
- some things you don't want to have to deal with in the middle of the work day - 'lia Jul 8, 13:49 1
  - i missed what it is but *something* is going on with you today - zork Jul 8, 13:53
I have a delivery for... -- nm - 1800 Flowers delivery man Jul 8, 13:44

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