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In response to "my advice to her was to quit worrying about how she'd come off to him. why fear seeming needy or clingy? why not just be yourself? " by kare

the thing is, she will seem needy and clingy, because she's being needy and clingy.

Posted by loosilu (aka loosilu2) Jul 8 '09, 13:49

I've been there.

Responses:

Calling someone you slept with the next day is needy and clingy? That's effing retarded. (nm) - musubi Jul 8, 13:55 2
- calling them with purpose is not. calling them because you're worried they won't call you is. -- nm - Guy Jul 8, 13:59
- no, flipping out is. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:56
i see nothing wrong with reaching out to him, considering how their relationship is going. (question: would he seem needy and clingy if he contacted - kare Jul 8, 13:51 4
- I know nothing about him, but I know that she's flipping out, which is the needy/clingy part. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 13:52 3
  - she's checking with her friends, not waiting outside his office. - b. Jul 8, 13:58 1
    - she needs to chill before she talks to him. -- nm - loosilu Jul 8, 14:03
  - yeah, its hard to hide that part, no matter how innocuous the email is -- nm - Guy Jul 8, 13:56
both of you are correct -- nm - zork Jul 8, 13:50

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