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In response to "no +1 means no +1. -- nm" by Reagen

I agree with this, but if the invite didn't say "no +1", I can understand assuming that +1 is okay. -- nm

Posted by Dr.Vermin (aka Dr.Vermin) Jul 10 '09, 12:05

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who the hell says "no +1" on an invite? it either says "and guest" or it doesn't. -- nm - loosilu Jul 10, 12:06
that's not how invitations work -- nm - dug Jul 10, 12:05 10
- [shrug] I'm certainly not an expert. I defer to your experience. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Jul 10, 12:07 9
  - consider that these people have to be fed and seated. If you booked a 150 person hall and 200 show up, you've got chaos on your hands. -- nm - Reagen Jul 10, 12:08 7
    - I said I defer! - Dr.Vermin Jul 10, 12:12 5
      - unwritten? unknown? Not even close. -- nm - loosilu Jul 10, 12:15 2
        
        All these extra-guest-bringers this woman has on her RSVP list show that you're wrong. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Jul 10, 12:17 1
        
        No, the stacks of etiquette books say the rules are written and widely disseminated. The people inviting their own guests - loosilu Jul 10, 12:20
      - Leave it to the conservative to invoke Amendment 10 to the wedding invite rulebook. - Will Hunting Jul 10, 12:13
      - "You didn't say no horses." -- nm - Reagen Jul 10, 12:13
    - and as we discussed the other day, it's not cheap food. -- nm - loosilu Jul 10, 12:10
  - the invitation is for the person named on it. no one else. -- nm - loosilu Jul 10, 12:07

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