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My wife, my love Patricia "Trish" passed away peacefully in her sleep this morning.

Posted by crash davis (aka crash davis) Oct 1 '22, 08:07

On her last trip to the ICU, they discussed a painful procedure to correct a problem. She was tired of being in so much pain and wanted hospice instead. I went to a meeting with her and the hospital on Tuesday, hoping that she would change her mind.

But I saw she was tired of all the pain. I agreed with her on the hospice, thinking we'd have a lot more time. She told me that my agreeing to end of life care was the biggest gift I could give her.

She came home on Thursday and due to them lifting the restrictions on pain medication, she wasn't hurting so much anymore.

I got in touch with Darcy and last night they talked briefly as Trish was taking a turn for the worse. The smile on her face when Darcy said she would always love her is something I'll always remember.

I then told her that I loved her and she told me the same. I thanked her for everything she had done for me.

I stayed up during the night. Her breathing got real labored this morning and I told her again that I loved her. I then said to not worry about me, I'll be fine. And then just like that, she was gone.

Her wishes were to be cremated and for me to have a memorial service at Trinity Lakes in July when the wild flowers are in bloom.

Responses:

So sad to hear this but grateful she can now rest in peace. -- nm - GregW Oct 2, 06:47
My deepest condolences - decline Oct 2, 06:14
I am so, so sorry. But glad it happened at home, with you. There are no words I can say but you know I am here for you. -- nm - Spawn Oct 2, 00:30
I'm so sorry. -- nm - con_carne Oct 1, 19:50
Condolences. -- nm - Todd Manning Oct 1, 17:58
I am so sorry crash -- nm* - Jovian Oct 1, 16:52
Oh crash, I'm so sorry. -- nm - ML Oct 1, 16:38
I am so sorry. - JenBro Oct 1, 15:28
Crash, I'm so saddened to hear this, my deepest condolences. - Cuzzin Todd Oct 1, 15:14
So sorry to hear, my thoughts are with Darcy and yourself at this difficult time. -- nm - Karl_S Oct 1, 15:09
So sorry, crash. Trish was a great part of our community. You and Darcy are in my thoughts. -- nm - Dano Oct 1, 14:40
I'm so sorry for both of you. I sat with my mom after they removed her ventilator and I know hard that must have been for you, even though there is a - jnine Oct 1, 14:13
My condolences. Sorry to hear. -- nm - .🎡 Oct 1, 14:12
I’m so sorry, crash -- nm - Roger More Oct 1, 13:57
I am so very sorry to hear bout Trish. She was a lovely person, and we are all better for having her in our lives. -- nm - Mr. Havens Oct 1, 13:56
So sorry for your loss. You are both loved. -- nm - psilotum Oct 1, 13:10
My heart goes out to you and Darcy - Banzai! Oct 1, 13:07
Dammit. So sorry brother...we're here for you like everyone else. Carrie and I are sending out love out west for ya - Jim Oct 1, 12:42
My deepest condolences. There’s no easy ending but it sounds like you were able to have some wonderful moments in the end. -- nm - Volnelk Oct 1, 12:41
I am sorry. Even though it was only on line, the humanity of you both showed. Blessings to you all. -- nm - zunk takes things literally Oct 1, 12:29
I have no words. She was awesome == nm - howie Oct 1, 12:15
So so sorry Crash. You and Darcy are in our prayers. You have truly been a gift to her and I know she has to you as well. All my sympathies and love -- nm - oblique Oct 1, 11:49
Oh, crash, I’m so sorry. You guys have been such a part of this place, and the game too, when I played it. What a feisty and sweet gal she could be! -- nm - mara Oct 1, 11:34
Oh man. Our condolences to you and everyone. -- nm - JaxSean Oct 1, 10:57
Wow. This is close to the heart of this family. I'll light a candle for her. ((( (( ( i. ) )) ))) -- nm - zeitgeist Oct 1, 10:33
Crash, I am deeply saddened by Trish's passing. She was always a wonderful woman and friend. all my love to you & Darcy -- nm - peglegpete Oct 1, 10:20
This hurts. Not sure if you were in the room, - Strongbad Oct 1, 10:20
I’m so sorry, Crash. -- nm - Mop Oct 1, 10:17
I feel for you and Darcy so much. It's a relief that she's without pain anymore but I miss her too. -- nm - Max Oct 1, 10:00
We love you. We love her. I am sorry and ache for this grief you are feeling. Thank you for sharing that story. It is a beautiful aching grief. - Landbeck Oct 1, 09:46
My heart goes out to you and the family. -- nm - Barynn Oct 1, 09:43
I am so sorry crash, she fought so hard for so long -- nm - groiny Oct 1, 09:38
Gutted - Subversive Oct 1, 09:38
So sorry to hear this and deepest condolences on your loss. She was so amazingly kind to me, in the TT days… - Flavorize Oct 1, 09:27
So sorry for your loss. We'Re all going to miss her and we'll all be here for you -- nm - JD Oct 1, 09:21
I love you, Crash. - David Oct 1, 09:17
Nooooo. Our hearts are broken. We love you. -- nm - Dark Callisto Oct 1, 09:16
My deepest condolences. Trish was a great woman. I remember was always so nice and welcoming to me here, a testament to her kind character - JackD Oct 1, 08:58
Sorry for your loss. -- nm - gort Oct 1, 08:57
so very very sorry crash. Prayers are with you -- nm - Beaker Oct 1, 08:55
My sincere condolences on your loss, stay strong -- nm - rollo Oct 1, 08:51
I'm so sorry :( -- nm - Beryllium Oct 1, 08:49
I am sorry crash. I will miss her, I am glad (I can’t think of a better word) that you were with her at the end - Truman Oct 1, 08:46 3
- And if you are willing to let others attend in July let us know -- nm - tRuMaN Oct 1, 08:56 2
  - Yes. -- nm - Subversive Oct 1, 09:46
  - Definitely this -- nm - spamlet Oct 1, 09:02
Condolences. So sorry for your loss. :( -- nm - budice Oct 1, 08:43
I'm so sorry. If there is anything I can do, let me know. -- nm* - sycor Oct 1, 08:43
so sorry and many condolences to you both. she was a force of nature and i'm glad she's at peace now -- nm - hollywood big shot Oct 1, 08:42
I'm so very sorry for your loss Mark. She was a remarkable woman. -- nm - Remlik Oct 1, 08:40
I'm very sorry for your loss. -- nm - TWuG Oct 1, 08:36
I'm heartbroken for you all Crash. -- nm - ty97 Oct 1, 08:34
Oh crash, I am so heartbroken to hear this -- nm - prayformojo Oct 1, 08:33 3
- Not for nothing, but this is beautifully written. -- nm - prayformojo Oct 1, 08:46 2
  - Yes. -- nm - Strongbad Oct 1, 10:38
  - It is and brought more than one tear to my eyes. -- nm - sycor Oct 1, 08:49
Very sorry for your loss. We will remember her always. -- nm - Epiphany Oct 1, 08:31
Oh Mark. I am so very sorry for your loss. -- nm - Andie Oct 1, 08:29
So, so sorry. -- nm - znufrii Oct 1, 08:29
It's nice to hear about Darcy. Feels like it's been forever. All of it does, really. And just like forever, that's how long we'll be here for you. - Qale Oct 1, 08:27
Oh crash, I’m so sorry. I’m grateful that Trish is no longer in any pain, bit my heart breaks for you and Darcy. If there’s ANYTHING you need, please - kelly Oct 1, 08:26
so so sorry, crash. An amazing person we have missed here, and will continue to. -- nm - mud Oct 1, 08:18
So sorry crash, glad it was peaceful on her own terms. -- nm - LMS Oct 1, 08:17
Truly sorry for your loss. You have a support system here for whatever is needed. -- nm - MDH Oct 1, 08:16
I’m so, so sorry Crash. Know that we all are a lot sadder this morning. -- (edited) - spamlet Oct 1, 08:14
Oh Crash! No matter how much you understand the probability it's so hard. She is no longer in pain and for that we are gratefull. - Meg Oct 1, 08:13
Oh god. I'm so sorry Crash. You have been a wonderful husband. If there's anything you need let us know. God speed Trish. We'll miss you. -- nm - pmb Oct 1, 08:13
Damn, man. I don't have words for this. -- nm - Reagen Oct 1, 08:13
oh god, no. I’m so sorry. -- nm - Tim Oct 1, 08:13
I am so very sorry for your loss. :-( Trish will be greatly missed by everyone that was lucky enough to know her. - Krusty Oct 1, 08:13
Oh, no crash. - Marlowe Oct 1, 08:11
I am so sorry for your loss. Anything you need, let us know. -- nm - Will Hunting Oct 1, 08:09

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