I agree with mafic about the Jonah Hill texts. He's using therapy terms to try to control her.
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Diva (aka Diva)
Jul 11 '23, 03:42
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He doesn't want her to model (what?!)
He doesn't want her to be photographed in a bikini or hang out with surfer people - She's a professional surfing instructor- it's her job. Somehow for him, her doing her job pushes one of his 'boundaries'.
He only wants her to see her gal friends in settings he deems 'respectful' like coffee or lunch. Wtf?? Who the fuck is he to say what is 'respectful' and to try to tell her what activities are Ok for her to do with her friends.
That's just the stuff I remember off the top of my head. Those posts are all attempts to control that woman couched in psychotherapy terms.
When I saw some of the posts here yesterday trashing the ex-gf, I was kind of alarmed
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Yup—all of this -- nm
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Flavorize
Jul 11, 07:02
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I haven't read the texts, but got a good gist of them from this thread which seems to sum up the problem very well -- (link*)
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ty97
Jul 11, 06:13
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Haven’t cared enough to read the texts in question but this doesn’t really surprise me
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znufrii 🦄
Jul 11, 06:07
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Agreed. Interestingly for me, it has given a name to something that I've felt personally because my daughter is studying psychology at school
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oblique
Jul 11, 05:59
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Between "You're my boyfriend and you will accept me doing anything I like" and "You're my girlfriend and you will not do anything I don't like"
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Max
Jul 11, 04:45
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Like maybe he’s just incredibly insecure, but that doesn’t make it ok. -- nm
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mafic
Jul 11, 04:43
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I agree completely. -- nm
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Krusty
Jul 11, 04:40
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And I also agree that making the texts public could help other people who are being gaslit by their toxic partners.
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Diva
Jul 11, 03:51
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