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In response to ""love and trust can overcome anything" was just a lie this whole time? what have so many love songs and movies been teaching me?!" by Hotkiss

Communication, friendship, kindness, -- nm

Posted by the liioulu with swag (aka liioulu) Jul 27 '09, 17:46

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respect is huge. and also sort of being on the same trajectory. like, people who are complacent are happiest with people who are complacent. people - beer on the porch loves mandy lane Jul 27, 17:47 15
- ... unless that person is trying to change. then it can be helpful to be around an opposite. -- nm - Guy Jul 27, 17:52 4
  - "you're everything I don't want to be, and that's driving me to change" is not the key to a healthy relationship. -- nm - beer on the porch loves mandy lane Jul 27, 17:53 3
    - replace 'trying' with 'wanting'? - Guy Jul 27, 17:55 2
      - well, yes. but that'd be obvious from the get go. see? so you wouldn't be different, because she'd make you the same. - beer on the porch loves mandy lane Jul 27, 17:56 1
        
        The best relationships are the ones where you are something more together. - the liioulu with swag Jul 27, 18:21
- That last bit, not so sure about. - the liioulu with swag Jul 27, 17:51
- This has to be at least partly true; bu yet, the reason my marriage failed is because we were both complacent. (Well, part of the reason, I guess.) I - mara Jul 27, 17:50 8
  - but you both knew you wanted more. see? you weren't giving that to each other. (I hate that I'm deconstructing your marriage. I respect you far too - beer on the porch loves mandy lane Jul 27, 17:52 1
    - I can never be offended by anything you post. :-) -- nm - mara Jul 27, 18:30
  - Does divorce feel worse than this? Or about the same? -- nm - Hotkiss Jul 27, 17:51 5
    - Things usually feel worse when you are young like you. Stuff like this seems like the end of the world, but with age you gain perspective. - con_carne Jul 27, 18:02
    - Stop trying to quantify the pain, and work on ending it. - Inigo Jul 27, 18:01
    - Worse than melodrama? Yes. -- nm - David Jul 27, 17:57 1
    - *laughing* come on -- nm - CQ Jul 27, 17:55
    - you're 21. mara was married for years. there is no comparison. -- nm - beer on the porch loves mandy lane Jul 27, 17:53

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