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In response to "To your IM: Not when you know that's exactly what they want. You know who your main antagonists are. Ignore them. -- nm" by TWuG

I feel like I'm letting them get away with it, then. I honestly don't know what is right.

Posted by loosilu (aka loosilu) Nov 5 '08, 12:09

I don't understand the mentality of being nasty for fun.

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To put it another way, if someone talked to a friend of mine that way, I'd rip them a new one. That's the right thing to do. -- nm - loosilu Nov 5, 12:10 16
- Except here you know it just feeds the pattern of abuse. They abuse you *because* you react. Stop reacting. -- nm - TWuG Nov 5, 12:12 15
  - they do it regardless of how i react. In spite of what some people claim, I hardly ever respond. -- nm - loosilu Nov 5, 12:13 13
    - plus, this implies that it is all my fault, which is bullshit. -- nm - loosilu Nov 5, 12:14 12
      - I think it implies it's in your control, not that it's your fault. -- nm - mara Nov 5, 12:15 11
        
        *ding* -- nm - TWuG Nov 5, 12:18 1
        
        You know, I step up - loosilu Nov 5, 12:19
        
        It's equally in control of the antagonists. I would *love* it - loosilu Nov 5, 12:17 8
        
        you can't control other people, you can control yourself. -- nm - Andie Nov 5, 12:18 7
        
        not the point. *sigh* -- nm - loosilu Nov 5, 12:20 6
        
        yes. it is. don't perpetuate it. -- nm - Andie Nov 5, 12:20 5
        
        what I am trying to understand - loosilu Nov 5, 12:22 3
        
        Some do, some don't. TT isn't a BS-proof. For example: Vermin still posts. - musubi Nov 5, 12:24 2
        
        /shakes my tiny fist at you/ -- nm - Dr.Vermin Nov 5, 12:25 1
        
        small size test. - Andie Nov 5, 12:32
        
        I'm shriiiiinkiiiiiing! (nm) - musubi Nov 5, 12:22
  - *nodding* -- nm - kelly Nov 5, 12:13

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I feel like I'm letting them get away with it, then. I honestly don't know what is right.

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