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Redmond can tell you all about this

Posted by Guy (aka lostatlimbo) Aug 3 '09, 10:29

its not all about physical intimacy, sometimes you just meet someone who makes you forget to keep breathing and the idea of kissing them some day (and more) is as exciting as actually kissing them

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- It's easy to co-mingle the two. Especially easy when you don't get to release the physical tension. The feelings get all muddled. - TFox Aug 3, 10:34 13
  - (and also, it's not like those two things are in neat compartmentalized separate spheres.) -- nm - TFox Aug 3, 10:35 1
    - and it's not like kissing pushes a magic love button. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:44
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    - it's real to him, or at least feels that way. that's the tough part, but - b. Aug 3, 10:39 1
      - your IM is very hard. Whatever you do, do not belittle your friend's feelings. - loosilu Aug 3, 10:42
    - i agree that from the sounds of it, yeah, it's my situation. and if i were him, i'd just figure out a way to get her done. - TFox Aug 3, 10:37 7
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        other than Fox's suggestion, you could try to set J up with someone else - Guy Aug 3, 10:46
        
        my experience is, they were that close for that long, at some point, they'll get bored with resisting and just get it done. - TFox Aug 3, 10:42 4
        
        won't that risk him thinking there's more there than there is? -- nm - b. Aug 3, 10:45
        
        sometimes the other person is just not into it. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:43 2
        
        sure, who knows. but it's not like getting someone done once is the hardest thing on earth either. - TFox Aug 3, 10:44 1
        
        True for you but not for all guys. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:46
- when you haven't yet met someone in person, there kind of has to be emotional involved? -- nm - b. Aug 3, 10:33 2
  - From his post, it seems he is referring to people who work together IRL. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:34 1
    - right. - b. Aug 3, 10:35
- you said they spent time together platonically, so i assumed that element of attraction was a given -- nm - Guy Aug 3, 10:32 1
  - if you interact with them a lot, there is no reason it cannot be emotional attraction. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:32

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