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It's easy to co-mingle the two. Especially easy when you don't get to release the physical tension. The feelings get all muddled.

Posted by TFox Aug 3 '09, 10:34

I had a girl once who I wanted *so* bad, and she was totally fucking nuts but I didn't see it b/c I wanted her so bad, and she kept picking dumb fuck guys over me and I couldn't stand it and I tricked myself into thinking my feelings were deeper than they were, and then I finally got her done and within a few weeks I was like, "oh, fuck, she really is batfuck insane. i'm done."

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(and also, it's not like those two things are in neat compartmentalized separate spheres.) -- nm - TFox Aug 3, 10:35 1
- and it's not like kissing pushes a magic love button. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:44
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- it's real to him, or at least feels that way. that's the tough part, but - b. Aug 3, 10:39 1
  - your IM is very hard. Whatever you do, do not belittle your friend's feelings. - loosilu Aug 3, 10:42
- i agree that from the sounds of it, yeah, it's my situation. and if i were him, i'd just figure out a way to get her done. - TFox Aug 3, 10:37 7
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    - other than Fox's suggestion, you could try to set J up with someone else - Guy Aug 3, 10:46
    - my experience is, they were that close for that long, at some point, they'll get bored with resisting and just get it done. - TFox Aug 3, 10:42 4
      - won't that risk him thinking there's more there than there is? -- nm - b. Aug 3, 10:45
      - sometimes the other person is just not into it. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:43 2
        
        sure, who knows. but it's not like getting someone done once is the hardest thing on earth either. - TFox Aug 3, 10:44 1
        
        True for you but not for all guys. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 10:46

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It's easy to co-mingle the two. Especially easy when you don't get to release the physical tension. The feelings get all muddled.

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