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Jack - other than Fox's suggestion, you could try to set J up with someone else

Posted by Guy (aka lostatlimbo) Aug 3 '09, 10:47

if he starts getting into another guy, he may forget about C altogether

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- I had a friend that I was obsessed with for about four years....probably in the the same way that your co-workers are.... - Walt_Disney Aug 3, 11:18
- i was infuated with my lesbian roommate off and on for about 2 years - Guy Aug 3, 10:53
- I has 2 major crushs throughout middle and high school. Both lasted about 3 years. - Hotkiss Aug 3, 10:51 32
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    - Yeah, his sex life is passing him by. -- nm - Spawn Aug 3, 10:58 4
      - true. he really ought to still be out getting some. even if this other dude is his ideal, it's a long-term project. - TFox Aug 3, 11:00 2
        
        just a wild guess: He's not ready for *any* relationship, and this guy is a stand in. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 11:07 1
        
        could be, but totally not necessarily. some people are just that hot. -- nm - TFox Aug 3, 11:09
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    - people get stuck. - b. Aug 3, 10:57 10
      - I don't think belittling his feelings in any way can be at all helpful. -- nm - loosilu Aug 3, 11:03
      - ~/But what a fool believes he sees/~ - 'lia Aug 3, 11:01
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        oh good. - b. Aug 3, 11:00 6
        
        on the flip side, some harsh honesty can do the trick in certain cases. it really depends on the person. - Guy Aug 3, 11:04 1
        
        i figured that's already been tried. -- nm - b. Aug 3, 11:11
        
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        am I J and ST is C?! -- nm - Hotkiss Aug 3, 11:05 1
        
        erm, I mean, sounds like ST's ban on me haha -- nm - Hotkiss Aug 3, 11:05
        
        b! is wise -- nm - 'lia Aug 3, 11:02
    - movies and books teach us that persitence wins over true love. im sure thats what is going through his head - Guy Aug 3, 10:55 9
      - at what point does persistence turn into stalking? -- nm - Hotkiss Aug 3, 10:56 8
        
        i don't think he's stalking as much as obsessing, maybe. -- nm - b. Aug 3, 10:58
        
        not at the point when the person is still going out to dinner with you? -- nm - Guy Aug 3, 10:57 6
        
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        give credit that at least you said it was dinners in small groups, not couple time? - TFox Aug 3, 11:02 4
        
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        fwiw, I totally think C is getting something out of it. - b. Aug 3, 11:17
        
        right. and it would actually help J's case to get someone else done. - TFox Aug 3, 11:08 1
        
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    - I'm doomed. -- nm - Tim Aug 3, 10:54
  - But were you doing other guys during those crushes? -- nm - Spawn Aug 3, 10:52 3
    - no - Hotkiss Aug 3, 10:53 2
      - Thanks. Was serious. -- nm - Spawn Aug 3, 10:57 1
        
        (spoiler) - Hotkiss Aug 3, 11:00
- That lack of a "real shot" may actually be making it worse. -- nm - Spawn Aug 3, 10:51
- i could see a year, sad as that is. eventually he'll either get it done or a straw will break his back and he'll be done. -- nm - TFox Aug 3, 10:51

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Jack - other than Fox's suggestion, you could try to set J up with someone else

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