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I will say this about Stacy. Everyone here knows how she carries herself in those discussions. If you join in, you have only yourself to blame.

Posted by loosilu (aka loosilu2) Aug 14 '09, 07:38

she is not going to change.

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Personally I think if anyone here who bitches about the same stuff more than a few times and does not heed our advice should be slammed or suspended. - lileve Aug 14, 08:04 6
- I'm really only talking about two people guys. You know who. It's just a comment, I don't expect it to be used. -- nm - lileve Aug 14, 08:27
- That's harsh, but they would be asking to get called out again and again -- nm - con_carne Aug 14, 08:14
- Bery would have to suspend 90% of ST. I'd be gone just for complaining about pennies, or the US electoral system -- nm - Roger More Aug 14, 08:09 1
  - Yay! My penny brother! - TWuG Aug 14, 08:15
- completely reasonable, sure. -- nm - kelly Aug 14, 08:09
- yikes. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 08:06
Thanks for prompting me to BB. This was hilarious -- (link) - Banzai! Aug 14, 08:00 [Backboard] 1
- yeah, that was. :) -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 08:02
... speaking from experience -- nm - Loosi si Aug 14, 07:40 8
- *says serenity prayer* - 'lia Aug 14, 07:51
- sure. I mostly learned to not get into it (though now and then I slip). -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:40 6
  - *keeps saying serenity prayer* - 'lia Aug 14, 07:52
  - What it comes down too on here as well as it was on hsx - eag Aug 14, 07:50 4
    - well, some people are mean. don't cut mean people slack. And she totally asks for it. - loosilu Aug 14, 07:52 3
      - I think people can be mean spirited on here yes but I dont think there are any real mean people on here -- nm - eag Aug 14, 08:05 2
        
        you are sadly mistaken. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 08:07 1
        
        I am not mean, I just have zero tolerance for bullshit. nm -- nm - groiny Aug 14, 08:09
...and honestly, I think a lot of you are tormenting her for fun. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:38 52
- People are certainly replying to her for fun. I don't see how that constitutes torment. She invites it, and participates fully and willingly when it - mara Aug 14, 07:42 51
  - Here's what I don't get...and I'm prepared for the slamming I'm going to take by posting this... - Jim Aug 14, 07:46 34
    - I think some people either deliberately or not misinterpret loosi's posts in the worst possible way. - Reagen Aug 14, 07:50 28
      - This is exactly right. I've grown to love loosi and her rather blunt style. - TWuG Aug 14, 08:19 1
        
        aw. *sniff*. Most people find that face to face I don't come across as harsh at all. it's a tone thing. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 08:21
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        (and of course, I only speak for me) -- nm - Reagen Aug 14, 07:56
        
        Like it or not, it's always been my point. -- nm - Reagen Aug 14, 07:54 22
        
        I have to respecfully disagree with your point. - Jim Aug 14, 08:02 10
        
        Of course it's a judgement call. How could it be anything but? - Reagen Aug 14, 08:09 9
        
        And I feel no ill will to you either...in fact, to take you out of the equaion altogether... - Jim Aug 14, 08:19 1
        
        I don't think my attitude towards her has changed but I think I can try and explain the reasoning - Reagen Aug 14, 08:30
        
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        I guess I don't see the impairment. - Reagen Aug 14, 08:22 5
        
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        I've never said my judgement is better than others. It's mine and people are free to take it or leave as they wish. - Reagen Aug 14, 08:33 3
        
        heh. "take it or leave it" - Reagen Aug 14, 08:35
        
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        That's pretty close, yes. Everything is issue by issue. -- nm - Reagen Aug 14, 08:37
        
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        I suppose I'll have to be fine with that. - Reagen Aug 14, 08:05 9
        
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        i've always assumed that she was a real person posting her real thoughts but at the same time found the claims making me *want* to be incredulous -- nm - zork Aug 14, 08:09 6
        
        she has big issues. - loosilu Aug 14, 08:11 5
        
        which is why i lay off for the most part but friends (and family) will always on occasion yoink each other over some shortcoming - zork Aug 14, 08:20
        
        so in other words, don't treat her like a normal STer because she obviously doesn't have her full mental faculties? -- nm - TFox Aug 14, 08:13 3
        
        more like, be a decent person. - loosilu Aug 14, 08:21 2
        
        why can't she defend herself? she can. she's told me to stop before, and i (i think) always have. -- nm - TFox Aug 14, 08:22 1
        
        iirc, she did tell people to cool it last night. -- nm - Beryllium Aug 14, 08:29
        
        I honestly don't think you're that bad. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 08:07
      - ok, since I owe you a huge debt for defending me, I won't be harsh on you. I just wish you'd lay off her a bit. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:51
    - I actually agree. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:47 4
      - Wow...how long's it been? ;) -- nm - Jim Aug 14, 07:48 3
        
        since you said something sensible? can't remember. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:49 2
        
        I'm gonna give you this one. nm - Jim Aug 14, 07:50 1
        
        heh. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:50
  - people draw her out, insult her, slam her, knowing full well how she will react. I don't get how that's amusing, personally. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:43 15
    - I think a lot of this "slam" and "insult" is people just trying to make sense out of what she posts. -- nm - con_carne Aug 14, 07:52 9
      - totally disagree. there's real nastiness toward her. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:53 8
        
        I guess when I read Stacy's interactions with people here, I don't see that any lines are being crossed. -- nm - con_carne Aug 14, 08:09 7
        
        And if they are crossed, her response (including her feelings) are her own responsibility. -- nm - mara Aug 14, 08:11 6
        
        And if there is a line, she can say "Here is the line." This of course would mean she shouldn't keep bringing up those same issues. -- nm - con_carne Aug 14, 08:21 1
        
        *ding* -- nm - mara Aug 14, 08:24
        
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        Yes, because I complain so much about my feelings being hurt on ST. I'm sure you'll be pointing me to this post dozens of times. -- nm - mara Aug 14, 08:17 2
        
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        Oh. Oops. Sorry. My fault entirely. -- nm - mara Aug 14, 08:22
    - "draw her out" just isn't true. no one is baiting her into posting this stuff. ever, that i can remember. - TFox Aug 14, 07:45 4
      - disagree, can't think of an example right now but I've definitely seen it. and besides, why have the convo at all? - loosilu Aug 14, 07:45 3
        
        i was bored. -- nm - TFox Aug 14, 07:55 2
        
        exactly. you're toying with her for fun. that's all I'm saying. -- nm - loosilu Aug 14, 07:55 1
        
        fair enough. -- nm - TFox Aug 14, 07:56

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