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bonus hax chat question: BF took job after graduation in another city. should she just end it or try and make it work from where she is??

Posted by pigby (aka chris) Nov 7 '08, 11:37

The ties that unwind: Carolyn -- My BF and I lived together for a year while he finished college and I (already a grad) took a local job. He told me he would be taking a prestigious job in another state after he graduated, but I guess I thought we were strong enough to weather the distance. But now our nightly conversations are strained and he literally seems distant. He's made friends there, while I'm lonely in our old city without him. Unfortunately, I don't like the city where he's living now, so I don't want to move there, but somehow I thought we could work things out. Am I hanging onto something that's already dead?

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I think if you really love the person you're with, "I don't like the city where he's living" is a bullshit excuse. - kelly Nov 7, 11:40 4
- He could move to her. I don't think either one really wants this anymore. -- nm - Amy Nov 7, 11:43 1
  - Me neither. It sounds like it's over but neither knows how to/wants to be the one to break it off. -- nm - Diva Nov 7, 11:46
- I'm with kelly. -- nm - loosilu Nov 7, 11:42
- well said -- nm - Beaker Nov 7, 11:41
not knowing if the bf has asked her to move there or not, it sounds as though bf has moved on. -- nm - Diva Nov 7, 11:39

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