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LYC My date tonight was pretty damn awesome at its height, but the end was a buzzkill. Looks like he just wanted a f*ck buddy. Lame. -- nm

Posted by Hotkiss (aka hotkiss7348) Sep 24 '09, 21:05

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Hey, c'mon! I was just kidding! -- nm - Mop Sep 24, 21:30
Glad you realized this, knew what you wanted, stood up for that, and told him so -- nm - ty97 Sep 24, 21:27
I literally went on a date a week ago with the same realization - MDH Sep 24, 21:21 6
- He kept making excuses like "I don't have time to date" even though "you're really cool and beautiful." - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:24 5
  - did you sing "then you shoulda put a ring on it"? -- nm - shamu Sep 24, 21:25 1
    - that kinda behavior from a guy isn't worth the effort -- nm - 'lia Sep 24, 21:28
  - You went on a date with a player. Move on. There are good guys out there. - Redmond Sep 24, 21:25 2
    - The thing was, I don't think he normally gets very much action. He was so awkward about making any moves, it was terribly cringing to be a part of it. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:28 1
      - not every creep is smooth, - 'lia Sep 24, 21:30
So you are saying, he's a normal guy? Gasp!! - Redmond Sep 24, 21:08 40
- not all - shamu Sep 24, 21:09 19
  - Yes you would. - con_carne Sep 24, 21:13 10
    - "and the talking leads to touching, and the touching leads to sex. and then there is no mystery left" -- nm - shamu Sep 24, 21:15 9
      - so why do your dates all need to bring tranq guns and mace? -- nm - 'lia Sep 24, 21:20 8
        
        oh that's just because i'm desperate and creepy -- nm - shamu Sep 24, 21:21 4
        
        I bet if you whipped out your grant, it would get you laid. -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:22 3
        
        probably not, he won't share the covers -- nm - 'lia Sep 24, 21:26
        
        "they give this award each year to the 24 most socially awkward, inept, borderline Asperger cases. how hawt is that, baby?" -- nm - shamu Sep 24, 21:25 1
        
        pixie, we've already talked about laconic thing - 'lia Sep 24, 21:27
        
        Why do your dates need to bring extra covers? -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:21 2
        
        if they're allowed to stay at my place they don't ;-) - 'lia Sep 24, 21:24 1
        
        Why am I picturing purple satin sheets? -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:28
  - Doesn't mean you don't *want* sex on the first date. - JaxSean Sep 24, 21:13 5
    - How about sex *before* the first date. I've done that a few times. -- nm - Qale Sep 24, 21:18 4
      - *perks up* -- nm - ReluctantCynic Sep 24, 21:20 1
        
        Uh huh. Distance, however, is hard to work around. -- nm - Qale Sep 24, 21:27
      - And the relationship was purely physical after, right? It couldn't have gone in any other direction. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:19 1
        
        No. They became pretty regular-ish type relationships. But then again, I was part of these relationships so I guess they are never normal normal. -- nm - Qale Sep 24, 21:26
  - sometimes stuff happens. -- nm - Reagen Sep 24, 21:11
  - Fair enough. Not all. -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:10
- We went somewhere pretty secluded and he *asked* for it outright. That didn't rub well with me. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:09 19
  - Did he take it out? I'll bet he took it out. nm - ralph wiggum Sep 24, 21:16 15
    - Uh he tried. He wasn't very smooth, to say the least. - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:18 14
      - Later he would have tried the Naked Man. -- nm - JaxSean Sep 24, 21:25 1
        
        Hey, that works 2 out of 3 times! -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:26
      - wow, wiggums nailed that - shamu Sep 24, 21:20 8
        
        I'm thinking that's the bitter experience talking, right there. -- nm - Reagen Sep 24, 21:21 7
        
        Heh. Actually, the most annoying one was this dude who tried to tell me some crap story - ralph wiggum Sep 24, 21:28
        
        Could be. Or she was the one showing her tight little purse to get some action. -- nm - Inigo Sep 24, 21:26 5
        
        *klaxons* -- nm - Reagen Sep 24, 21:27 3
        
        I'm imagining the "Warning. You have three minutes to clear the area." voice from Aliens right now. -- nm - Name Withheld By Request Sep 24, 21:28 2
        
        pretty much. -- nm - Reagen Sep 24, 21:31 1
        
        But super calm and matter of the fact. "Clear the area to a safe distance immediately." - Name Withheld By Request Sep 24, 21:49
        
        jeez! -- nm - shamu Sep 24, 21:27
      - I'm not liking this boy at all. Thinking of several names I can call him. -- nm - con_carne Sep 24, 21:20 1
        
        He was cute too, /sigh. Oh well, I'm not exactly crying over him. Plus we ran into some of my friends during the night and he was awkward. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:22
      - No Way! How old was he 17? - Redmond Sep 24, 21:19
  - I'm offended by his lack of style, if nothing else. -- nm - Reagen Sep 24, 21:15
  - That is rude. Why even have a date? There's this thing called courtship... -- nm - con_carne Sep 24, 21:14
  - Yeah, asking outright is lame. Most times a guy can just go in for a kiss and get all the information he wants from that. -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:12
welcome to the world of dating -- nm - shamu Sep 24, 21:07 7
- or couchsurfing. -- nm - Max Sep 24, 21:28 1
  - hey! not a hookup site -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:28
- I told him "I'm not looking for anything long term, but if you're just looking for something physical, then don't call me back." - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:08 4
  - You're not giving him the largest target to shoot for, there. -- nm - Reagen Sep 24, 21:10 1
    - I'm all for friends with benefits if it involes more than just benefits. I was probably spoiled by my summer fling. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:12
  - You talk in riddles. Which makes you a normal woman. -- nm - Redmond Sep 24, 21:10 1
    - I've been more clear in my life. -- nm - Hotkiss Sep 24, 21:10

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