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In response to "how am i supposed to trust her when she doesn't even follow through on her agreements?" by tRuMan

I'm sorry to hear this....

Posted by Remlik (aka Remlik) Sep 10 '08, 10:57

but she's not acting like she wants to make it work. Mine didn't and I begged to go for consueling. Begged.

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we start with a new counselor next wed. -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:00 14
- so why the big rush on her moving her stuff? why can it not stay put for awhile? - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:01 13
  - exactly. Mine went out on a date the week after she left to 'think about things' - Remlik Sep 10, 11:03 8
    - good lord. - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:08 5
      - yeah mine went from 'loving me" in her words to moving out a month later....so something was hinky. -- nm - Remlik Sep 10, 11:14 3
        
        clearly she is an idiot. -- nm - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:15 2
        
        she's something all right. -- nm - Remlik Sep 10, 11:27 1
        
        funny how seeing someone else go through it can give you that feeling in the pit of your stomach again - kare Sep 10, 13:17
      - i wouldn't say never, but probably not so much for a while at the time. -- nm - zork Sep 10, 11:10
    - the agreement we wrote up, for a trial separation, states not dating. -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:04 1
      - and if you sniff her out if she does, she might accuse you of spying -- nm - zork Sep 10, 11:06
  - she wants space to figure herself out. and she thinks I need space to figure me out. - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:03 3
    - tru, i think maybe she really really can't think straight right now, and letting her have her own place and some downtime will be the only way to - Andie Sep 10, 12:09 1
      - this is really good advice. when you're in that state, you truly *need* that space to get perspective. the hardest thing probably is letting go enough - kare Sep 10, 13:12
    - perhaps, she wants to make any descision without being tied to her stuff being with you - zork Sep 10, 11:04

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