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In response to "Ugh - she clearly wants to do what she wants to do regardless of how you feel about it." by Epiphany

And inventory everything, ideally with photos and/or record of purchase, if the material stuff matters at all. -- nm

Posted by Beryllium (aka grayman) Sep 10 '08, 11:02

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we wrote up a list last night, and even signed in showing our agreement on the items. -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:03 22
- and she violated the list already? -- nm - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:04 21
  - it appears so yes. -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:07 20
    - Then my advice would be to drop in to hardcore evidence-gathering mode. Gather what evidence you can to defend yourself and get important stuff back. -- nm - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:08 19
      - the only thing I am apphrehensive about her taking was a box of nicknacks that we have collected from vacations - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:10 18
        
        you two are on two different mental levels right now - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:12 16
        
        nods -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:16
        
        ^-- listen to epiphany more than you listen to me. I have zero experience with this sort of thing, except .. - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:15 14
        
        there are people here who have been through it. It's remarkable how it normally takes the same course -- nm - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:19 13
        
        And it's really sad how many women seem to be so adept at twisting the system to totally fuck over their ex-husbands. - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:25 12
        
        That was not my experience. It depends on the people involved. -- nm - pmb Sep 10, 15:52
        
        yeah, not really a cool generalization. for one, the women often end up getting the kids and need the financial support - kare Sep 10, 13:02 5
        
        Indeed. My mom got the kids, my dad ended up paying some child support, and that situation went rather well. - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:23 4
        
        sorry you had to go through that. :( -- nm - kare Sep 10, 13:30 1
        
        thanks ... the generalization that kicked all this off is just a dramatization of it, really ... - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:59
        
        (And the bias I drew from it, used in the generalization above, is because the exes were doing the wringing and torturing) -- nm - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:24 1
        
        ... and he made it through all that, only to then die of cancer. So ... yeah. -- nm - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:25
        
        I've seen it go both ways. People can be so mean to the very people they vowed to love their entire life - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:28
        
        thank god for prenups. -- nm - Remlik Sep 10, 11:27 3
        
        i believe in prenups, i've decided. -- nm - kare Sep 10, 13:02
        
        no prenup here -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:27 1
        
        well protect yourself as best you can. -- nm - Remlik Sep 10, 11:38
        
        Hopefully you haven't heard the A-word yet. - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:12

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