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In response to "Then my advice would be to drop in to hardcore evidence-gathering mode. Gather what evidence you can to defend yourself and get important stuff back. -- nm" by Beryllium

the only thing I am apphrehensive about her taking was a box of nicknacks that we have collected from vacations

Posted by tRuMan (aka Truman) Sep 10 '08, 11:10

or given to us.

the rest of the stuff, she can have, it just bothers me that she took it.

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you two are on two different mental levels right now - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:12 16
- nods -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:16
- ^-- listen to epiphany more than you listen to me. I have zero experience with this sort of thing, except .. - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:15 14
  - there are people here who have been through it. It's remarkable how it normally takes the same course -- nm - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:19 13
    - And it's really sad how many women seem to be so adept at twisting the system to totally fuck over their ex-husbands. - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:25 12
      - That was not my experience. It depends on the people involved. -- nm - pmb Sep 10, 15:52
      - yeah, not really a cool generalization. for one, the women often end up getting the kids and need the financial support - kare Sep 10, 13:02 5
        
        Indeed. My mom got the kids, my dad ended up paying some child support, and that situation went rather well. - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:23 4
        
        sorry you had to go through that. :( -- nm - kare Sep 10, 13:30 1
        
        thanks ... the generalization that kicked all this off is just a dramatization of it, really ... - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:59
        
        (And the bias I drew from it, used in the generalization above, is because the exes were doing the wringing and torturing) -- nm - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:24 1
        
        ... and he made it through all that, only to then die of cancer. So ... yeah. -- nm - Beryllium Sep 10, 13:25
      - I've seen it go both ways. People can be so mean to the very people they vowed to love their entire life - Epiphany Sep 10, 11:28
      - thank god for prenups. -- nm - Remlik Sep 10, 11:27 3
        
        i believe in prenups, i've decided. -- nm - kare Sep 10, 13:02
        
        no prenup here -- nm - tRuMan Sep 10, 11:27 1
        
        well protect yourself as best you can. -- nm - Remlik Sep 10, 11:38
Hopefully you haven't heard the A-word yet. - Beryllium Sep 10, 11:12

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