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In response to
"she wants space to figure herself out. and she thinks I need space to figure me out."
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tRuMan
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tru, i think maybe she really really can't think straight right now, and letting her have her own place and some downtime will be the only way to
Posted by
Andie (aka Andie)
Sep 10 '08, 12:09
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clear her head.
it's entirely not fair to you to change the rules as soon as she makes them. and, getting her head clear in no way means things will go either particular way, but she sounds like she's just entirely hysterical about the situation and NOTHING, i repeat NOTHING you say is going to resonate with her if she's in that sort of state.
do everything you can to respond to any gestures she might make toward reconciliation with a positive attitude, but i really think any pressure (real or perceived) is going to act against you.
(this is based on watching several of my very good friends split up with the husbands. it doesn't reflect well on my gender, but that's my 2 cents worth.)
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