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In response to
"Whatever will be, will be. Just ride it out and see what happens - don't act in a way that will force one scenario to occur. -- nm"
by
Beryllium
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if possible, be over-accomdating, keep a journal of what's happened and when...
Posted by
Remlik (aka Remlik)
Sep 10 '08, 12:43
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and keep track of all financial expenditures....
you should never ever get mad during this process or vindictive. If it goes to court, it will play out.
And if you have credit card debt, make sure she pays. Don't settle for a percentage of the debt. Make her pay at least half of the debt accured while you guys where together...and if she fights it...the judge will, 9 times out of 10, split in half between the two of you.
Make sure the house gets in your name asap. The longer her name is on it and you make payments the better her credit score becomes and there is no need to help her with that.
Get everything in your name asap..don't wait around.
I hate that you're going through and hope for the best outcome possible.
But protect yourself. And get a good lawyer. It's a good time to start talking to one to watch your back. Don't sign anything she brings you without a lawyer looking at it.
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