Hey tRU...after catching up...sounds to me like there's not much you can do at this point.
Posted by
Jim (aka Jim)
Sep 11 '08, 05:56
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The whole "we can try to make it work" thing was a bullshit ploy to keep you at bay while she got some shit arranged.
From what I'm reading, she's done and has no intention of trying to come back.
While this is exactly what you DON'T want to hear, unfortunately, it seems like it's the truth.
At this point, you have to try your best to turn off the emotion and seriously focus on what's best for you and life after.
Stop trying to figure out what you can do that will make her happy and make her change her mind, because the problem isn't you.
Start thinking about your future, your stuff and where you go from here. I can't imagine how hard that would be to do...but from your posts, it sounds like you two are at a point of no return. And if you're not careful, she's gonna leave with you with a whole lot more than a broken heart.
Also...now's probably the time to get an attorney.
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