Love Letters response to "Am I the GF or Not?"
Posted by
Deevil (aka Diva)
Oct 21 '09, 12:26
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AITGON, if I�m reading this right, you�ve been dating this man since the day he moved out of his family�s house. Is that right? Hmmm.
To answer your most basic question, yes, you are the girlfriend. You�re the girlfriend of a man who�s not yet divorced and is trying to figure out how to maintain a comfortable relationship with his ex and his child. It�s a little odd that he spends so much time at his ex�s house, but frankly, he�s experimenting. He�s separated. He has a lot on his plate -- and you�re not necessarily the most important thing on it.
If you want to be the center of someone�s attention -- if you want to date someone who can prioritize getting to know you -- this guy isn�t the guy. You sound like you want a real boyfriend. This guy can�t be that. He�s too busy considering a divorce, maintaining a good relationship with his ex, and parenting. The fact that he doesn�t see anything wrong with his situation should confirm that.
Be honest about what you want. If you want it all, go find it in a more appropriate package. If you want him, start getting used to what he's willing to offer.
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