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In response to
"I've been friends with this guy since we could walk. He's just been majorly difficult lately -- nm"
by
Hotkiss
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Then keep him on your xmas card list but otherwise at arms length
Posted by
zeitgeist
Oct 27 '09, 22:37
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How would YOUR friends deal with you if you threw a tantrum and screamed at them and otherwise acted like a toddler with a full diaper just because you had a difficult day?
WHY would you even consider putting up with it? Set the guy staight, there are certain boundaries,
no, get yourself straight, this isn't the first time you wrote about a developing abusive relationship.
you need to judge people for little things that give you clues as to how they be in a relationship, and transfering frustration to a 3rd party is a big red warning flag.
I mean would you put up with a barrista who abused you while ordering coffee when she's had a bad day? Even if you've been there everyday for a year you are likely to go to another place and never come back.
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