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b! There is this guy who likes me but he's got too many red flags I worry about

Posted by Qale (aka Qale) Nov 10 '09, 21:03

Like when he was drunk and yanked my hair and didn't remember later that I told him that if he did it again I was going to kick his fucking ass.

Or that he always redirects every conversation to him.

Or that he's unemployed and while on unemployment is in the nightclub. ... twice a week.

He says he owns his own place in the hippy part of town called Little 5 Points which is cool.

But... I dunno. Too many negative are piling up with only some small positives.

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Q! don't make me go all CAPS on you - 'lia Nov 10, 21:28 1
- ALL CAPS IS CRUISE CONTROL FOR COOL -- nm - Qale Nov 10, 21:37
may I chime in? don't stop looking for someone else - more deserving of your affection - otherwise you'll rationalize and accept less than you deserve - JenBro Nov 10, 21:24 1
- agreed -- nm - 'lia Nov 10, 21:27
Q! - b! Nov 10, 21:06 6
- Well I mean, he does have sweetness to him - Qale Nov 10, 21:09 5
  - what would you say to me if i shared what you did about someone? - b! Nov 10, 21:13 4
    - Do you want to turn on sticky keys. - Qale Nov 10, 21:17 3
      - I had actually typed in... - b! Nov 10, 21:21 2
        
        Well... - Qale Nov 10, 21:26 1
        
        indeed... - b! Nov 10, 21:28
He sounds scary. Do you really want to be with someone so... irresponsible and rude? -- nm - Hotkiss Nov 10, 21:05 6
- I don't disagree necessarily. I worry that I'm settling just to get involved. But then I also worry I'm being too judgemental too. -- nm - Qale Nov 10, 21:06 5
  - wise judging /= over-judgmental. you included some waving red flags worth noting. -- nm - b! Nov 10, 21:09 2
    - red flag high five. -- nm - loosilu Nov 10, 21:09 1
      - we know. ;) - -- nm - b! Nov 10, 21:10
  - fwiw, I think those flags are worth noting. -- nm - loosilu Nov 10, 21:08 1
    - Yesh. They're certainly well noted. It's why I haven't called or written eagerly like I normally would. - Qale Nov 10, 21:10

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