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kare, I would say this. Those guys that rejected you or thought your veg status was a negative?

Posted by Red Nosed Reindeer Poop (aka redmond) Dec 26 '09, 12:04

Their loss your gain! Nothing wrong with them, but they weren't right for you. And that's what it all comes down to.

I have been on so many dates lately where I liked them they didn't like me. Or vice verse. We are all shopping for someone that makes us happy.

All Guy teasing aside. I could date a woman that didn't eat meat, as long as she didn't object to me eating it. If she was cool with me the way I am, then I can handle the way she is.

Smoking is the big exception. As I stated. It effects things like kissing, how the smoker smells to me. That is too big a hurdle to jump for me. I know I joke about Gross and Nasty!! Smokers aren't bad people, they just aren't people I want to be in a relationship with. It's a physical thing, not a value judgement thing.

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oh, just a negative as far as i know. it's a bit of a hot button because it feels a little sexist when dudes say they couldn't ever date a vegetarian - kare Dec 26, 12:11 13
- It's meatist!!! I have never been in a relationship where I wasn't the cook in the household. - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 12:13 12
  - you've always been the chick? that expains alot -- nm - dogbert Dec 26, 12:14 11
    - Joking aside. Cooking a nice meal for a woman is a great skill to have. - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 12:18 10
      - joking aside? I can't have a conversation without joking -- nm - dogbert Dec 26, 12:22
      - it's admittedly total chick porn. -- nm - kare Dec 26, 12:19 8
        
        I couldn't believe what a turn on it apparently was for me when the boy cooked for me the first time a few weeks ago. -- nm - Hotkiss Dec 26, 12:20 7
        
        my problem is my guy insists on doing all the traditionally dude type stuff, plus he does far more laundry, dishes, and general housework than i do - kare Dec 26, 12:27
        
        yeah, that line about the fastest way to a man's heart, actually it works a lot better the other way -- nm - zeitgeist Dec 26, 12:22 5
        
        sounds like it's not the fastest way to a woman's heart, but to her nu-nu -- nm - dogbert Dec 26, 12:24 4
        
        YSMM. After all, we're not the ones in this thread who compared cooking to porn ;) -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 12:28 3
        
        Yeah, I very much took notice of that as well. I knew it was a great skill. I didn't know it was porn for chicks. -- nm - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 12:29 1
        
        I mean, the ST husbands usually say that about cleaning house. It's all good, though. :) -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 12:30
        
        mostly it's just terrific when a dude makes an effort - kare Dec 26, 12:29
People's diet makes them smell a certain way, too, though. -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 12:11 1
- you really think so? maybe in extreme cases (kim chi, garlic) or their breath right after they eat it. -- nm - kare Dec 26, 12:28
My intolerance for diet differences isn't about lack of acceptance or respect for me. It's about basic compatibility, or lack thereof. -- nm - Hotkiss Dec 26, 12:09 1
- I wonder how znufrii got on over the Christmas. -- nm - Loyola Dec 26, 12:10

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kare, I would say this. Those guys that rejected you or thought your veg status was a negative?

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