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Just told/asked the boy what I might be planning to do. His response: (wtf!)

Posted by Hotkiss (aka hotkiss7348) Dec 26 '09, 12:50

"Next time just don't tell me about that stuff. You can do whatever you want, but if you know I don't like it, then don't tell me and it's okay. Like, you can go sleep with a papacito in Mexico, just don't tell me about it."

wtf.

I don't know that I'm okay with this, since I don't want him to think doing something is okay just because he doesn't tell me about it.

Responses:

Oh sure, I get back and immediately there's homework. -- nm - the liioulu with mitten toe Dec 26, 13:22
and what would you have thought if he had forfid it? lose lose for him... -- nm - Beaker Dec 26, 13:17
Uh, does this mean he assumes you feel the same way, should the tables be turned? There are trust issues here, going both ways. -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 13:09 10
- they've only been dating a month - Guy Dec 26, 13:12 9
  - The first month should be the month you are most picky. - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 13:16 1
    - oh, im not arguing in favor of the boy, i just think its funny how carne phrased it as 'trust issues' -- nm - Guy Dec 26, 13:20
  - If HK is worried enough about her diet while he is away, she may be worried about stuff he does, too. Just saying. -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 13:13 6
    - Her diet? What? -- nm - mara Dec 26, 13:19 4
      - I thought it turned out to be about eating meat. I could be wrong. -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 13:21 2
        
        heh. no, that was another guy she already dumped -- nm - Guy Dec 26, 13:23
        
        If so, I completely missed that. -- nm - mara Dec 26, 13:22
      - Yeah I was reading back posts. I didn't know we had a specific on it yet. -- nm - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 13:20
    - (she is also WTFing about his reaction, which to me sounded natural in their stage) -- nm - con_carne Dec 26, 13:17
not the typical fare for a series' Xmas episode but, what the hey -- nm - mr. squiggles Dec 26, 13:07
He may not want to hear about individual instances, but his knowing that you'll continue doing this thing you want to do is important. It's better - mara Dec 26, 12:58
Not that I know much about this man. I do know you from ST pretty well. This is rebound guy. - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 12:57
my take: he'd rather have you not tell him about something you know he doesn't care for rather than tell him you won't do it and then do it anyway - dogbert Dec 26, 12:56
if it's a dealbreaker for him, either you honor it or find someone for whom it isn't a dealbreaker -- nm - mr. squiggles Dec 26, 12:53 1
- unless she's just looking for a fling. but otherwise yeah, not exactly conducive to closeness and intimacy. -- nm - kare Dec 26, 13:01
how long have you been dating? - Guy Dec 26, 12:52 6
- She was just hoping you'd curb her for her indiscretions. -- nm - Will Hunting Dec 26, 12:58 2
  - Ding!! Very possible. I have used the nuclear option before. - Red Nosed Reindeer Poop Dec 26, 13:00 1
    - we broke it off about a month before she returned, but a few weeks after she was back... - Guy Dec 26, 13:02
- bwah. that's cold -- nm - mr. squiggles Dec 26, 12:58
- about a month. - Hotkiss Dec 26, 12:53 1
  - i think she wanted me to break up with her, so she didnt have to. - Guy Dec 26, 12:58
1) don't ask 2) that *is* kind of WTF. -- nm - kare Dec 26, 12:52

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