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My post on b2 wasn't HK specific, it was to con_carne's statement that being single or not will be (should be) a factor when you travel.

Posted by Stephen (aka Sceire) Jan 12 '10, 12:45

I disagreed.

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I can last two months on the road without banging random dudes. are you saying I'm not the norm? -- nm - amanda Jan 12, 12:52 3
- No, i'd like to think that you would be. -- nm - Stephen Jan 12, 12:59
- I'm not random. -- nm - Dano Jan 12, 12:53 1
  - Nor a dude - oblique Jan 12, 12:53
PMB's response to you on B2 summed it up better than I could -- nm - con_carne Jan 12, 12:51
Sometimes selfish is all you want for yourself. -- nm - Hotkiss Jan 12, 12:51
i don't think you can say 'no' outright in every case. different people want different things. - Andie Jan 12, 12:48 11
- let's just call it what it is, there is no legit reason to break up with someone to go on a trip - groiny Jan 12, 12:51 2
  - Sure there is. A long trip mean emails, calling, maintaining the emotional side of youre relationship. If you don't want to do that, break it off -- nm - Roger More Jan 12, 12:55 1
    - bah, I do not buy it. - groiny Jan 12, 12:57
- But if there's no good reason to be with them the (a) trip shouldn't be the impetus to end the relationship. -- nm - Stephen Jan 12, 12:51 7
  - Sometimes people need a crossroads to decide what they really want. - pmb Jan 12, 12:54
  - It needs *an* impetus. Otherwise, coasting along for fun seems fine. It's not turned sour, it's just not sweet enough to wait for. -- nm - TFox Jan 12, 12:52 5
    - right. sure, we can all say 'you should just break up with X", but you need a reason. both for yourself and for them. - Andie Jan 12, 12:54 4
      - so we're saying that hk lacks the maturity to see that the relationship was no good without the threat - amanda Jan 12, 12:56 3
        
        *i'm* not saying that. i'm saying if she doesn't want to wait two months, then it's not a relationship worth waiting for. - Andie Jan 12, 12:57 1
        
        yeah, pretty much every person I dated prior to being 30. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 12, 12:58
        
        i would say, conversely, that she's gained the skill, knowledge and/or confidence to be able to pull the trigger on ending something... - TFox Jan 12, 12:57
All this HK talk makes me think she might be hot. -- nm - Loyola Jan 12, 12:47
Not all relationships are created equal. Some are worth waiting a few months for. Some aren't. - TFox Jan 12, 12:47 2
- Agreed. -- nm - pmb Jan 12, 12:49
- I...agree with TFox... -- nm - znufrii Jan 12, 12:48

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