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In response to "i don't think you can say 'no' outright in every case. different people want different things." by Andie

But if there's no good reason to be with them the (a) trip shouldn't be the impetus to end the relationship. -- nm

Posted by Stephen (aka Sceire) Jan 12 '10, 12:51

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Sometimes people need a crossroads to decide what they really want. - pmb Jan 12, 12:54
It needs *an* impetus. Otherwise, coasting along for fun seems fine. It's not turned sour, it's just not sweet enough to wait for. -- nm - TFox Jan 12, 12:52 5
- right. sure, we can all say 'you should just break up with X", but you need a reason. both for yourself and for them. - Andie Jan 12, 12:54 4
  - so we're saying that hk lacks the maturity to see that the relationship was no good without the threat - amanda Jan 12, 12:56 3
    - *i'm* not saying that. i'm saying if she doesn't want to wait two months, then it's not a relationship worth waiting for. - Andie Jan 12, 12:57 1
      - yeah, pretty much every person I dated prior to being 30. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 12, 12:58
    - i would say, conversely, that she's gained the skill, knowledge and/or confidence to be able to pull the trigger on ending something... - TFox Jan 12, 12:57

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