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In response to "reading the article, her central thesis is that married men who are "making new friends" with single women and not mentioning their family..." by TFox

Yes, indeed. Are they taking off their wedding rings in order to make these friends? -- nm

Posted by Beryllium (aka grayman) Jan 28 '10, 07:35

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- right. "disclosure", without disclosure. "i'm not doing anything wrong. i'm wearing my wedding ring, for pete's sake." -- nm - TFox Jan 28, 07:39 12
  - it can be slightly sketchy, but not as horrible as its being presented in the article I think. - znufrii Jan 28, 07:43 4
    - Again, in the article, the "calling me just to say hi" is what kicked it off. and i don't think that is an overreaction. -- nm - TFox Jan 28, 07:53 3
      - In that specific instance, yes. - znufrii Jan 28, 08:00 1
        
        they are defining "friends" as friends, not casual acquaintances. and in that instance almost always, it's douchy behavior. that's the point. -- nm - TFox Jan 28, 08:04
      - oh boy would I be in trouble. nm -- nm - groiny Jan 28, 07:56
  - I generally agree, buit also I wouldn't be comfortable talking about my wife (beyond generalities) with people who haven't met her. -- nm - Roger More Jan 28, 07:41 6
    - but once you progressed to being "friends", you would. -- nm - TFox Jan 28, 07:56 5
      - I was thinking from the context of being the fundraising guy who is always asked where his wife is. But even so, I wouldn't talk about her in detail. - Roger More Jan 28, 08:00 4
        
        I dont' think a married man should be expected to talk about his wife at every opportunity. - znufrii Jan 28, 08:03 3
        
        'every opportunity', god no. but, if i'm going to be friends with someone, my marital status is something they would know. -- nm - Andie Jan 28, 08:04 2
        
        I think the issue here is more involved than just knowing someone's marital status. - znufrii Jan 28, 08:15 1
        
        i don't think anyone said you can't have friends that your spouse doesn't share. -- nm - Andie Jan 28, 08:26

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