Just sent the psycho dude a reply e-mail
Posted by
Hotkiss (aka hotkiss7348)
Feb 6 '10, 21:46
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"[2 paragraphs in response to what he's been up to lately]
Anyway, I haven't responded because of your last few e-mails/IMs/messages. I'm on vacation, not an international boyfriend search, and your constant paranoia and apologies are, frankly, just awkward. You're thinking way too much about things. I like you, but you're coming on way too strong for my tastes. [thanks Will!] And I've told you that before. I've known you for, like, two months and you practically asked me to share my future career decisions, move to your hometown with you, and meet your family. Yes, couples do this kind of stuff, but eventually, not in some sort of pressured rush.
I suppose it must have been different with your last girlfriend since you came from the same city and similar circle of friends, so it was natural to extend things. But with me and my ex, it took 1.5 years before I went to meet his family and visited his home. I went because it was an important step in our steady relationship, I didn't do it "because that's what couples are supposed to do." You notice I never formally introduced you to my family because we weren't serious.
Also, don't say things like you "worship" me. Stuff like that is more psycho than endearing.
Please, stop going crazy while I'm gone.
[my name]"
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