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bonus v-day hax chat q: they broke up but now she keeps sending him friend requests on Facebook. but then taking them back. then sending them again

Posted by poochinski (aka chris) Feb 12 '10, 12:12

Weirded out on the World Wide Web: My ex-girlfriend (I broke up with her 2 years ago) has been submitting and then un-sumbitting a "friend request" to me on Facebook for like, 5 weeks. I'll see the friend request there for a few hours, or a day or 2, and then it's gone for another few hours or another couple days.

As we are not otherwise in touch and I don't particularly want to be (especially now that it's apparent she's not over me), I have no intention of ever giving her access to mull over my personal doings, photos, etc. But it's completely creeping me out that she's dedicating a substantial amount of thought to deciding whether or not she wants to ask for that access. I want to tell her to quit it, I am never going to "accept" the request anyway, but I don't want to encourage her by contacting her. BUT, she shows no signs of stopping this on her own. What should I do??

Responses:

The flickering friend request is just a symptom of the FB site redesign. She actually made it weeks ago, and has since forgotten all about you. -- nm - Dr.Vermin Feb 12, 12:25
get a life or do some voluntary work to help Haiti -- nm - Danedukenuuk Feb 12, 12:17
Has he tried hitting "ignore"? -- nm - Ender Feb 12, 12:15 1
- Yeah, assuming he doesn't equally enjoy the drama, someone needs to tell him that's a simple fix on Facebook. -- nm - David Feb 12, 12:17
Nothing. -- nm - Loyola Feb 12, 12:14 3
- The act of sending the letter in is more thought than he should give it, if what he says is true. -- nm - Spawn Feb 12, 12:15 2
  - He probably loves that someone is going crazy over him. -- nm - Loyola Feb 12, 12:19 1
    - This is 30 Rock all over! - Spawn Feb 12, 12:23
poor Truman -- nm - Beaker Feb 12, 12:14
Man up. -- nm - Spawn Feb 12, 12:14 1
- your wife should get you facebook for v-day -- nm - poochinski Feb 12, 12:15
give her tru's email address... -- nm - znufrii Feb 12, 12:14
Can't you just block her and be done with it? Or, I don't know...ignore her? -- nm - Jim Feb 12, 12:14
sit back and giggle. -- nm - TFox Feb 12, 12:13
sleep with her, obvie -- nm - CQ Feb 12, 12:13 1
- What's the worst that could happen? -- nm - mara Feb 12, 12:29
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