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In response to "Ok...another hypothetical for ST: You're a dude and you had a vasectomy, let's say...7 years ago. Your wife comes home and tells you she's pregnant" by Jim

I ask this because someone Carrie knows had this exact situation. Husband wanted a paternity test. As it turns out, his V had reversed itself and

Posted by Jim (aka Jim) Feb 26 '10, 09:01

the baby was his.

The question now is...can their relationship ever be the same after he basically admitted he didn't trust her?

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I'm a scientist, so I'd be able to get over it if I were her. -- nm - nubby Feb 26, 09:05
doing the paternity test is the sigh of him not trusting her?????? - Danedukenuuk Feb 26, 09:04 1
- Well...she didn't cheat on him. She told him the truth...and he didn't believe her. - Jim Feb 26, 09:05
Yes, because the not trusting here here is not without reasonable cause. It's virtually the equivalent of another chick coming in and saying she - pmb Feb 26, 09:04
He was dumb to get the paternity test before doing a payload test. Very dumb. - Beryllium Feb 26, 09:04 2
- No...after the baby was born. -- nm - Jim Feb 26, 09:04 1
  - then he had months to do the payload test, and didn't -- nm - Roger More Feb 26, 09:05
I feel it was a necessary precaution. It's really a crazy scenario. -- nm - Mop (226 lbs) Feb 26, 09:03
*ding* Check your swimmers first privately, then go from there -- nm - oblique Feb 26, 09:03
I'd say it's a pretty reasonable reaction to a wtf moment. She shouldn't get hung up on it forever. IMO. -- nm - TFox Feb 26, 09:03 1
- I agree - could have happened to us - I'd understand if he was WTF is going on? - Epiphany Feb 26, 09:07
This happened in a book I read once. But it was flowery fiction so the wife forgave him after he bought her a ton of stuff. - Diva Feb 26, 09:02
if the baby is his, he has to get over it. His mistrust is wrongly placed. -- nm - loosilu Feb 26, 09:02 5
- I think he meant her hurt feelings that he didn't trust her is a problem. understandably so of course. though if I were the guy - sycor Feb 26, 09:03 1
  - I think the guy needs to apologize for the next ten years. -- nm - loosilu Feb 26, 09:03
- Well obviously HE would be over it. It's his kid and his wife didn't cheat. Can SHE get over it is more the question here. -- nm - Jim Feb 26, 09:02
- The question is can she get over it... -- nm - Guigue Feb 26, 09:02 1
  - oh!! I see. I have no idea. -- nm - loosilu Feb 26, 09:03
Nope. -- nm - Name Withheld By Request Feb 26, 09:02

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I ask this because someone Carrie knows had this exact situation. Husband wanted a paternity test. As it turns out, his V had reversed itself and

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