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In response to "ST Poll: Have you ever had a coworker continually misrepresent you?" by fedup

yes. Stop telling her stuff you don't want repeated. -- nm

Posted by loosilu (aka loosilu2) Feb 28 '10, 21:32

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well, since it's too late...do you have any tips on how to address the situation now...and how to make it stop for the future? - fedup Feb 28, 21:34 19
- Yes, a confrontation is needed. - loosilu Feb 28, 21:36 16
  - and this won't cause strain to the relationship? what if she didn't mean it? (like just loose with her words) - fedup Feb 28, 21:38 15
    - Are you trying to nail her? If so: you lost, move on. If not: stop worrying about the relationship. You're both paid to work together. Just work. -- nm - Fuzzy Feb 28, 21:47 3
      - no...i think it's bad to shit where you work -- nm - fedup Feb 28, 21:51 2
        
        Then I'll share my philosophy about work: I'm not paid to like you, I'm paid to work with you. - Fuzzy Feb 28, 21:57 1
        
        see, this is the weird part...everywhere else i've worked, people haven't been so "in your business" - fedup Feb 28, 22:01
    - I have a hard time believing blabbing about bosses is unintentional. - Hotkiss Feb 28, 21:41 7
      - if it's unintentional (which I doubt) then she NEEDS someone to tell her to stop. -- nm - loosilu Feb 28, 21:42
      - you know me, trying to think the best :) -- nm - fedup Feb 28, 21:42 5
        
        if it's not intentional, then she's unbelieveably stupid. -- nm - loosilu Feb 28, 21:43 4
        
        thank you loosilu and TFox for your wisdom!! - fedup Feb 28, 21:50 3
        
        did you just indirectly call me unwise -- nm - Hotkiss Feb 28, 21:54 2
        
        *whistles* - fedup Feb 28, 21:55
        
        There's a huge gap between "not as wise as TFox" and "unwise". That's rarefied air we're talking about. -- nm - TFox Feb 28, 21:55
    - Omelets and eggs. - Dr.Vermin Feb 28, 21:41 1
      - thank you as well Dr. Vermin! -- nm - fedup Feb 28, 21:54
    - her blabbing has ruined the relationship. -- nm - loosilu Feb 28, 21:40
- does she play the drums? -- nm - TFox Feb 28, 21:35 1
  - no...(why does that matter?) -- nm - fedup Feb 28, 21:36

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