Love Letters response to Queen of Bad Timing:
Posted by
Diva (aka Diva)
Mar 1 '10, 10:28
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QOBT, I don't believe in signs. Tell him how you feel.
If he has had feelings for you for years, he'll want to know that you're ready to reciprocate. He should know all of the facts before making decisions about this new woman.
Just prepare yourself for the possibility that he may continue to date this woman. You've been in and out of his life. He has been exploring his options. Who knows where his head is after all of these years?
But please, as you come clean, put this whole thing in perspective. He's a good friend. You have feelings for him. You want him to be something more. But that's all you know. Don't make yourself feel as though your future husband is on line. You don't know how it would be to date this guy in the present. It could be great, but it might be underwhelming. Don't assign him soul-mate-future-husband labels before you've really been with him. He's a friend with potential. That's all he is. Be honest with him and see if he wants to give it a go.
Readers? Should she tell him or bite her tongue out of respect for his new relationship? Is this about bad timing or something more? Is he has important as she thinks he is? Any bad timing stories you want to share? Do so here.
� Meredith
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