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In response to "i don't think it says she has, i think she wants to see the old emails, she wants to know if what he confessed to is the whole truth. -- nm" by Andie

Although, I think what she really wants is the whole truth, meaning something consistent and logical.

Posted by TFox Mar 4 '10, 12:02

Which could be achieved in a lot of different ways, but the best and easiest way would be for him to man up, tell the whole story, answer all her questions, be totally honest, and then she won't find all these little details to pick apart. That's how restoring the trust starts. Not catching him in more lies and saying hurtful things reading e-mails to other people.

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i agree, but she's trying to figure out how to feel convinced that she's got that, so she can deal with the facts. -- nm - Andie Mar 4, 12:03 4
- right. and reading the e-mails would do that, but would also hurt *a lot*. a really honest conversation might do it also. -- nm - TFox Mar 4, 12:05 3
  - He should lay it all out and let her know that she can read the emails if she chooses to. It's up to her if she wants to, but she should understand - pmb Mar 4, 12:08 2
    - The question really has nothing to do with what he should do. It's what she should do. -- nm - mara Mar 4, 12:12 1
      - I guess what I'm saying is that's what she should require. -- nm - pmb Mar 4, 12:14

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Although, I think what she really wants is the whole truth, meaning something consistent and logical.

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