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both parties have the right to walk away, i guess. it's not about "right". it should be about what makes you happy.

Posted by TFox Mar 4 '10, 12:33

it actually makes me a little sad that some people are so rigid in their "if cheating happens, i am *gone* no matter what" opinion. because maybe they got there because they did a lot of reflection and knew they'd never be happy again, and maybe they didn't... but if they look back and think 'you know, i was happier then. maybe i should have tried harder...' then that's a little sad, that they acted based on a rule they established beforehand that may or may not have been the right choice for them.

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- Again, you're overlawyering this. The vows are ceremonial. You promise to love and take care of each other. The real rules of your marriage come - pmb Mar 4, 12:48 3
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    - Maybe I'm misunderstanding you. It's your focus on the "vows" repeatedly that leads me to believe that you're looking for set in stone rules. There - pmb Mar 4, 12:56
  - Let us compare and contrast the marriages of both znu and kilbo... -- nm - Spawn Mar 4, 12:50
- Traditional wedding vows are essentially: I'll love you forever - oblique Mar 4, 12:39

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both parties have the right to walk away, i guess. it's not about "right". it should be about what makes you happy.

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