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dude. The consequences are that shit gets difficult. Sadly, many people are just as willing to cut and run than to actually work on it -- nm
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oblique (aka kkuphal)
Mar 4 '10, 12:38
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Obviously there can be no "specific" consequences for a broad range of people. -- nm
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Dr.Vermin
Mar 4, 12:46
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"get over it" is good advice, and plenty specific.
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Dr.Vermin
Mar 4, 12:58
I think people have ideas based on how they know themselves, but I don't think you really have an answer until you find yourself in the circumstance.
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pmb
Mar 4, 12:53
I don't think there's anything that the "victim" can do in this case. Anything you do to monitor or otherwise actively confirm things are not
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oblique
Mar 4, 12:51
I think it's hard to be specific because they're all emotional consequences - introspection, guilt, shame, having to change, etc -- nm
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Roger More
Mar 4, 12:43
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There are different ways of doing that though. I mean, you can either force your way into their world (which may be counterproductive like you say)
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Roger More
Mar 4, 12:50
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I think you would have to find positive ways of doing it. But you're not going to rebuild trust by becoming less involved with each other. -- nm
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Roger More
Mar 4, 12:56
There isn't a sentancing guideline for dicking someone over...
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oblique
Mar 4, 12:42
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This. -- nm
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pmb
Mar 4, 12:46
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