I think people have ideas based on how they know themselves, but I don't think you really have an answer until you find yourself in the circumstance.
Posted by
pmb (aka pmb)
Mar 4 '10, 12:53
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As I look back on my first marriage, in many ways I can't believe I stayed married to my first wife as long as I did. In the aftermath of the marriage I have found her to be a pretty awful person. But within the marriage there are kids. And while we were on the same page raising them we could deal with our differences. I would have stayed with her for the sake of the kids, but having put the kids through it already you could never pay me enough money to get me back with her. Things are very relative.
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