Maybe I'm misunderstanding you. It's your focus on the "vows" repeatedly that leads me to believe that you're looking for set in stone rules. There
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pmb (aka pmb)
Mar 4 '10, 12:56
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are no set in stone rules. This isn't a lawyer answer, it's a practical answer. It's hard to know where you really would draw the lines until you're faced with the circumstances. I described my thoughts below. In my current marriage I would feel, I think more governed by my own happiness than the kids, because they would be less directly involved in the equation. You want hard answers, but there aren't any.
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