"get over it" is good advice, and plenty specific.
Posted by
Dr.Vermin (aka Dr.Vermin)
Mar 4 '10, 12:58
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As the 'victim', spending your time obsessing over the past does no good for anyone. You (assuming you judge the relationship to be worth maintaining) make a conscious decision to let bygones be bygones. Maybe keep a sharper eye out from now on, but otherwise treat it like a learning experience and treat any missteps as footnotes, not the defining events of the relationship.
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