thursday hax chat q: they're getting married and he's getting strippers in Atlantic City for the bachelor party. driving her crazy
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16 & pixie (aka chris)
Mar 11 '10, 11:39
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Washington DC: Dear Carolyn, There is something that keeps gnawing at me; I would love your input. I am getting married in a few months. My fiancee and his buddies are planning his bachelor party in Atlantic City and hopefully will spend their time playing poker and hanging out in bars. I know it's pretty common for guys to go to strip clubs or get strippers for these parties but I am absolutely disgusted by the thought of him watching/touching/getting lap danced by some naked girl. I have told him this and I think he gets it, but he won't really be planning it himself AND these parties are just as much for the other guys as they are for the groom.
This is making me crazy. To the point that when he left his email open the other day I actually did a search for the word stripper. And you know what came up? An email he sent back to his best man about planning the party (+/- stripper). I think he sent the email before I spoke up but still, it bothered me so much. I am violating his privacy and driving myself nuts. Please help me with this.
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