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Very bad news STers...

Posted by Inigo (aka Inigo) Mar 12 '10, 18:24

Although this is an insanely complex story, it boils down to the fact that my wife isn't in love with me anymore, and she wants to move on.

I'm still in love with her, and just a year ago (and for the 10 years before that), we were a great couple. Things have changed though, and there's really nothing I can do. She says she's a lesbian, always has been, and needs to pursue that.

If you had asked me just ten months ago, if I thought this could ever happen, I would have never dreamed it could. We were that close.

Thanks for any good thoughts and prayers you can pass on.

Responses:

sorry to hear that. -- nm - mafic Mar 12, 20:48
Ugh. Sorry, dude. I can't imagine. Praying for you all. -- nm - SyrDragon Mar 12, 20:43
Sorry to hear that -- nm - eag Mar 12, 20:29
yikes and ouch .... sorry to hear that ... do you have kids? i can only imagine what it'd be like for them if you do :( -- nm - i'm not dead yet ! Mar 12, 20:10
Yikes... can't imagine getting news like that... good thoughts and best wishes to you as you move forward with your life. -- nm - Cuzzin Todd Mar 12, 20:04
best wishes. -- nm - remlik Mar 12, 19:56
I'm very sorry for you, Inigo. You're in my thoughts. -- nm - ty97 Mar 12, 19:48
I'm so sorry. :-( -- nm - Krusty Mar 12, 19:44
So very, very sorry. -- nm - Kick Ass Mar 12, 19:40
*hugs* -- nm - b! Mar 12, 19:34
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And one more thing, I had some people make some great jokes to lighten me up - amoxy Mar 12, 19:19
Crap man that sucks, very sorry to hear that - Stephen Mar 12, 19:11
oh, that is hard. I am so sorry. we are all here for you. -- nm - loosilu Mar 12, 19:10
We're here for you. Take some time. -- nm - nubby Mar 12, 19:09
Wow...so sorry to hear that, Inigo. - kelly Mar 12, 19:07
Other than well wishes, how can we help? Think of something/anything and we'll make it happen. -- nm - David Mar 12, 19:06 7
- Saying that means a lot, David. My head is mush right now, has been for a while. - Inigo Mar 12, 19:13
- Cheerleader board? Pun thread? Vegastravaganza? -- nm - nubby Mar 12, 19:08 4
  - My first Vegastraganza was right after my divorce. I will say this. It was perfect timing. I needed the break. - Redmond Mar 12, 19:12
  - *sits in the corner quietly...with some pudding* - Nekkid Crazy Mel Mar 12, 19:10 2
    - Do it up. -- nm - Inigo Mar 12, 19:26
    - yay *clapping* -- nm - fairway frank Mar 12, 19:17
- thanks for saying this... - Mel Profit Mar 12, 19:07
Whoa...Hey, been there, done that... - amoxy Mar 12, 19:01
that's a huge gut punch. I'm so sorry. -- nm - Mel Profit Mar 12, 18:54
hopeful for gentle change that gets better quick for you & your family - JenBro Mar 12, 18:52
yikes. so sorry to hear dude -- nm - Beaker Mar 12, 18:43
I'm very very sorry to hear this. -- nm - TWuG Mar 12, 18:42
Hey if you need someone to talk to. I am available. - Redmond Mar 12, 18:35 6
- Thanks, I may take you up on that. - Inigo Mar 12, 18:43 5
  - That's the strange aspect of divorce for close couples. Someone you've relied upon for so long is suddenly out of the equation. - David Mar 12, 19:08 3
    - Exactly! It's like half your brain has been removed. You need to learn to solve your problems with the other half. -- nm - Redmond Mar 12, 19:14 2
      - how did you do it? - fairway frank Mar 12, 19:16 1
        
        *Puts the cone of shame on pixie* -- nm - Redmond Mar 12, 19:17
  - here is my number - Redmond Mar 12, 18:44
sorry man -- nm - tRuMaN Mar 12, 18:33
Wow, I'm sorry. -- nm - Tim Mar 12, 18:33
wow. really sorry to hear this, inigo -- nm - prayformojo Mar 12, 18:32
Sorry to hear that. - the liioulu with sparkly box Mar 12, 18:32
Thanks all. It means a lot. If Amoxy is around, I'd like to talk to him for pretty obvious reasons. -- nm - Inigo Mar 12, 18:32
chin up. you'll get thru this. -- nm - peglegpete Mar 12, 18:30
Sorry Inigo. *sending good thoughts* -- nm - Jelly Mar 12, 18:30
So sorry to hear that. I don't think there is a right thing to say but best wishes to you and your family. -- nm - Dano Mar 12, 18:29
dang, that's rough. - znufrii Mar 12, 18:29
Oh so very sorry to hear that. -- nm - MojaveMeg Mar 12, 18:28
Terribly sorry to hear that, Inigo.. don't blame yourself -- nm - G.waa Mar 12, 18:26
sorry, man :( -- nm - Beryllium Mar 12, 18:26
Oh, no. I'm so sorry. I know it seems like dark days now, but you'll be able to get through this. -- nm - mara Mar 12, 18:26 3
- Thanks, it's just so much to deal with, as you know. - Inigo Mar 12, 18:39 2
  - As a product of parents that divorced at age 9 - Redmond Mar 12, 18:49 1
    - Yeah, mine did when I was 4. - Inigo Mar 12, 18:54
ugh. sorry to hear that. you'll get through it -- nm - fairway frank Mar 12, 18:26 1
- (it happened to my first boss. he got remarried not too long after and is super happy) -- nm - fairway frank Mar 12, 18:28
oh, Inigo, I'm so sorry. this is pretty shocking. -- nm - Andie Mar 12, 18:25

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