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In response to
"Long personal post --- need some decent input; if it's a cheap joke, find another thread please. "
by
Will Hunting
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Sorry that you are having to deal with this. It is an immense amount for anyone. My thoughts are as follows:
Posted by
pmb (aka pmb)
Mar 31 '10, 09:54
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I think this is very difficult for you and there is an element here of subconsciously creating separation before the inevitable loss that is coming. Frankly I'm going through the same thing with my daughter as she gets ready to go to college. Our relationship has been very difficult for the past several months and it is unquestionably related in some way to her starting the separation process. While you are more mature and the loss here is more profound, I think the process is the same. I agree with others who feel while it may make it somewhat easier in the short run, it may be harder in the long run. Don't let the short term behavior affect what has been a lifelong closeness and commitment to you. She is dealing with very difficult stuff too and can use your understanding. This is not about you being a bad person. It's about protecting yourself and it's completely understandable. It might help you to talk to someone. There's not much longer for you to have to deal with this and your help and comfort can mean a lot to her. Best of luck.
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