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LYC: The fact that the crazy ex and I have been regularly texting/messaging/calling for the last 2 weeks doesn't mean everything

Posted by Hotkiss (aka hotkiss7348) Apr 6 '10, 11:52

is okay again, right? And now we're lightly discussing him coming up or him paying for me to visit him. As much as I'd like this mirage of happily-ever-after to be true, I know it's not real. So why do I continue to play into it? Is it because I think we're both just lonely or something?

Snap some sense into me, ST.

:(

Responses:

I don't get why you ask ST what it thinks...You get the same answers every time... -- nm - BAD Apr 6, 12:19
it means you're both clinging for unhealthy reasons. -- nm - loosilu Apr 6, 12:15
WTF (slap) is wrong with you (slap) do you realize that this behavoir (slap) is at the heart of every (slap) abusive relationship (slap) from simple.. - zeitgeist Apr 6, 12:07 5
- is it? is this typical? - Hotkiss Apr 6, 12:09 3
  - yes, absolutely. To make it more typical, he will be really sweet and promise he has changed. - loosilu Apr 6, 12:20
  - You're just fucking with us now, aren't you? -- nm - Jim Apr 6, 12:13 1
    - stop being a dick - Hotkiss Apr 6, 12:20
- don't forget crack -- nm - CQ Apr 6, 12:08
Sorry, but which crazy ex is this? action figure guy? Or the one before him? - Roger More Apr 6, 12:01 5
- the 2-year crux of my college years one -- nm - Hotkiss Apr 6, 12:02 4
  - rent "Baby It's You" by John Sayles - the 40 year old virgin Apr 6, 12:04
  - I would ignore him, and go to tystravaganza -- nm - Roger More Apr 6, 12:03 2
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      - My theory was that if I can't go to tystrav, I still want to hear some good stories -- nm - Roger More Apr 6, 12:12
Here's me being honest: Get over it. You are 22 (ish). There are other guys out there, who cares about the crappy ones. - MDH Apr 6, 12:01 3
- Here's me being honest: Save your breath. This one can't be taught. -- nm - Jim Apr 6, 12:04 2
  - What I don't understand is that she has a dating bible and still hasn't figured it out. - Reagen Apr 6, 12:09 1
    - a what? -- nm - loosilu Apr 6, 12:22
let him come - Danedukenuuk Apr 6, 12:01
"don't give up what you really want for what you want at the moment." -- nm - b. Apr 6, 11:59 1
- but if the answer to both is "dick".... -- nm - TFox Apr 6, 12:00
There's a reason it didn't work out before. - znufrii Apr 6, 11:59 5
- time has passed. I don't know, maybe things have changed. I have. -- nm - Hotkiss Apr 6, 12:00 4
  - "I know it's not real" -- nm - b. Apr 6, 12:21
  - this is an excellent way to change back to where you were before. -- nm - loosilu Apr 6, 12:17
  - do you really think that you've changed in a way that would make those reasons go away, or are you just fooling yourself? -- nm - znufrii Apr 6, 12:15 1
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go gay. guys are your downfall :) -- nm - peglegpete Apr 6, 11:59
I think this is great. Go for it. -- nm - Jim Apr 6, 11:57 6
- in fact, go get pregnant. -- nm - Reagen Apr 6, 11:58 4
  - And go get a load to the face while you're at it. -- nm - Shaun Apr 6, 11:59 2
    - 25 Spawn Points -- nm - Kick Ass Apr 6, 12:02
    - dayam -- nm - CQ Apr 6, 12:01
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- *endorses* -- nm - TFox Apr 6, 11:58
RE: Your last sentence. ST has *tried* for the better part of 2 years, if you haven't figured it out yet, you aren't going to. -- nm - TWuG Apr 6, 11:55
You are both just lonely. -- nm - Kick Ass Apr 6, 11:55 3
- but if you get back together, you'll be miserable. lonely is better. -- nm - ty97 Apr 6, 11:58 2
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  - *ding* -- nm - znufrii Apr 6, 11:58
maybe you need therapy - the 40 year old virgin Apr 6, 11:54 1
- I think everyone does. - znufrii Apr 6, 11:56

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