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In response to "Mrs. Vermin and I have a "state of the union" discussion whenever we take a long (30+ minutes) car ride together. " by Dr.Vermin

this is probably a good idea for married couples, because if there's no assessment, you might end up 20 years in and bitter that things turned out

Posted by Max Apr 7 '10, 10:44

better to refresh get a sense of anything that may have been stewing for a while, even if it's just "I've always wanted to go to the mountains for vacation but we always go to the beach, and it was a habit, so I never said anything."

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OBX! -- nm - the 40 year old virgin Apr 7, 10:47
I can see these happening with some couples. -- nm - CQ Apr 7, 10:47
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- we're the same -- nm - CQ Apr 7, 10:48 2
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    - naw, not me. I'm handy, but I'm not a carpenter. Even I would get someone else to do it -- nm - CQ Apr 7, 10:50
- I'd bet a lot of people feel "it was never the right moment to bring it up" so a dedicated time would be helpful. -- nm - Max Apr 7, 10:47

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this is probably a good idea for married couples, because if there's no assessment, you might end up 20 years in and bitter that things turned out

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