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In response to "Beaker from B2: I haven't got it touch with Nancy's husband yet. " by Inigo

My two cents: you should and you should also ask her to move out.

Posted by David (aka David) May 7 '10, 08:32

It won't feel real to her until that has happened. Having her move back in with her parents and taking care of the kids there may wake her up from her fog. If it doesn't, you're not out anything as you need to start moving on with your life as well.

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This is completely unsolicited advice on my part, please accept it as well-meaning, Inigo: Fight tooth and nail for custody - TWuG May 7, 08:49 1
- After watching a fragment of Oprah yesterday, I agree completely. Stick a cork in that irrationality; be the check - and the balance. -- nm - Beryllium May 7, 08:50
Actually yeah. I understand the whole "wait for her to get a job thing"...but the more I think about it. - Jim May 7, 08:45 3
- I think it might make the whole thing too contentious... - Mel Profit May 7, 08:49 2
  - I agree (based on the abstract info I have). I understand Jim's response, but that's more an emotional response than a rational one. Just have to be - pmb May 7, 08:54 1
    - and again my opinion is just one of many...it is in no way right. - Mel Profit May 7, 08:56
I can't kick her out legally. - Inigo May 7, 08:45 3
- huh? nm -- nm - groiny May 7, 08:45 2
  - Both our names are on the title. It's her house too. I can ask her to leave, but can't kick her out. -- nm - Inigo May 7, 08:46 1
    - Regardless of what anyone says here, you're in the best position to know what's best. Just try to focus on the end results you want as best you can - pmb May 7, 08:52
Well said, but (i hope Inigo doesn't find this too intrusive)... - Crimson Divamo May 7, 08:44
yup. sooner is better than later. -- nm - znufrii May 7, 08:44
I only agree 96%. - TFox May 7, 08:42 2
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- ROUND UP! ROUND UP!!! -- nm - David May 7, 08:43
Agree 100%. -- nm - Shaun May 7, 08:41
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Agreed. -- nm - MDH May 7, 08:40
I agree with David here 100% - groiny May 7, 08:40

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My two cents: you should and you should also ask her to move out.

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