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In response to
"Both our names are on the title. It's her house too. I can ask her to leave, but can't kick her out. -- nm"
by
Inigo
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Regardless of what anyone says here, you're in the best position to know what's best. Just try to focus on the end results you want as best you can
Posted by
pmb (aka pmb)
May 7 '10, 08:52
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instead of the mixed feelings you have. It's not easy. Doing things as smoothly and cordially as possible is a worth a little extra personal aggravation and time, but you can't let it undermine everyone moving on as reasonably fast as possible. Only you can know the right balance point, but be aware that sometimes what feels most comfortable may not be best. There's comfort in the familiarity of having her around and unknowns with having her more removed from your life. Just try to be aware if those feelings are pushing you towards being more accommodating than is in your longer term best interests.
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