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In response to "i agree in that it does seem like she may have some unrealistic expectations of what a long-term relationship is really like" by kare

honestly, if anything I think her expectations are too low. -- nm

Posted by loosilu (aka loosilu2) May 26 '10, 12:28

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i read a little deeper into it. it seems like she expects a happy marriage to just happen to her. -- nm - kare May 26, 12:29 16
- I think there is a significant amount of not knowing what a relationship should feel like. Also, she's lost weight, feels more confident about - pmb May 26, 12:33 6
  - honestly, i'm in the "divorce" camp myself. life is too short, and she is just figuring out what she really wants and deserves - kare May 26, 12:35 4
    - I could join this, given the caveat that she should probably figure out what she wants FIRST. - Dr.Vermin May 26, 12:47 2
      - agreed though i chalk it more up to her maturity level than being lazy and inimagitive -- nm - kare May 26, 12:53 1
        
        *un* - kare May 26, 12:53
    - I hope I didn't come across as pointing the finger at the dude. Although, if he is as passive as he seems, he should get the hell out. -- nm - loosilu May 26, 12:36
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- Yup. -- nm - Dr.Vermin May 26, 12:31
- I think she's had one relationship and this is it, so she doesn't have a lot to compare to. -- nm - Roger More May 26, 12:30 1
  - agreed. -- nm - znufrii May 26, 12:30
- I read it differently ... that she is trying to convince herself that a good who doesn't love her should be good enough. -- nm - loosilu May 26, 12:30 1
  - i'm not so sure that he doesn't love her. -- nm - Andie May 26, 12:37
- she also married him because she wasn't sure she could find anyone else. and she's tempted to stay with him because she's afraid no one else will want - kare May 26, 12:30 3
  - Judging by her comments, I'd wager she was approaching 300lbs. That's a.....legitimate concern - Will Hunting May 26, 12:32
  - I think this is true, but the dude seems perfectly content with the situation -- nm - Roger More May 26, 12:31
  - that's what I'm saying. She's willing to settle for crap. -- nm - loosilu May 26, 12:31

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