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In response to
"I'm just saying that his reluctance (refusal) isn't necessarily an indication of wanting out of the marriage"
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Stephen
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oh, i don't think so either. but i think it shows he's not willing to work on things, and he doesn't realize how dire the sitch is.
Posted by
kare (aka kare)
May 26 '10, 12:47
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prediction: he'll agree to counseling when it's too late. that's how it works.
therapists are hardly miracle workers. but if a person is ready to figure some of their shit out, and stop repeating harmful patterns and coping mechanisms, a good therapist can help 'em do that.
and imo, it's one of the best damn things you can do for yourself/yourselves - if you're really receptive to it.
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