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after much self reflection recently

Posted by Truman Jun 8 '10, 19:44

I have come to the conclusion that the phrase "tru,s mind is his own worst enemy" is scary accurate.

I need to let go and forgive my ex-wife for what she put me through, and the damage I allowed her to cause to my own self.

I also need to forgive myself for what I did to myself during and after the divorce.

Nut, I also need to realize that I am, and I will never be the same person I was. But I do need to learn to be happier in the present instead of focusing on the past that was or the future that will not be.

I also wish I had a clue on how to date, etc. But I need to trust that friends who want to get me to go on dates mean wellm. And that sometimes. You have to Be willing to take a risk to get a reward.

At some point I hope to have learned all this

Responses:

You are a good and smart person, and nobody can take that away from you..... - MojaveMeg Jun 8, 20:04 4
- i have been sklacking -- nm - Truman Jun 8, 20:07 2
  - stupid blackberry - Truman Jun 8, 20:12 1
    - But... Sklacking sounds kind of fun. -- nm - Qale Jun 8, 20:19
- hell YES to Meg's IM. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:05
Good on you. I'll probably be dealing with the second sentence of your IM for a long time. -- nm - Inigo Jun 8, 19:46
well done, my friend. very well done. - loosilu Jun 8, 19:46
takes awhile but it happens. -- nm - Remlik Jun 8, 19:46 18
- but if you win the lottery I still get 10% for being your spiritual advisor. -- nm - Remlik Jun 8, 19:52 17
  - If your his spiritual advisor - eag Jun 8, 19:59 10
    - I think remlik has a different kind of idea about "spiritual". -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 19:59 9
      - But so would Groiny:) -- nm - eag Jun 8, 20:01
      - IT'S.A.PROCESS! -- nm - Remlik Jun 8, 20:00 7
        
        oh, whatever. so is washing the dishes. - loosilu Jun 8, 20:03 6
        
        *pft* you wouldn't pass the program. -- nm - Remlik Jun 8, 20:04 5
        
        hey! I wash the dishes regularly! -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:05 4
        
        except the ones on the floor or hidden in the oven -- nm - zork Jun 8, 20:13 3
        
        OK, I will readily admit that I am messy, but I NEVER leave dishes on the floor or in the oven. I am messy but not dirty. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:19
        
        or under the trash bags. -- nm - Remlik Jun 8, 20:14 1
        
        such a lie. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:30
  - your version of "spiritual advisor" involves helping him select which action figure he identifies with the most. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 19:54 5
    - King Kong? Boots? Winged Monkeys from the Wizard of Oz? Monkey from the TV series Monkey? -- nm - Roger More Jun 8, 20:00 1
      - What kind of fiction do you like? More action stuff, mysteries, or alternate worlds? -- nm - remlik in pusher mode SI Jun 8, 20:04
    - Hee! nm - ralph wiggum Jun 8, 19:55
    - IT'S.A.PROCESS! -- nm - Remlik Jun 8, 19:55 1
      - and processes cost money!!! -- nm - Pusherman SI Jun 8, 19:55
Don't worry. It takes a long time to get over the death of a relationship - amoxy Jun 8, 19:46 12
- honestly i do think i should probably find a counselor - Truman Jun 8, 20:06 9
  - yes, you should. And are you on meds? I recommend both, but together. - loosilu Jun 8, 20:08 7
    - no and to be honest i dont want to be on them - Truman Jun 8, 20:15 4
      - did you try just one? the right one is a miracle. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:20 3
        
        i dont know. i ttrusted the doc and my wife, only an rn then - Truman Jun 8, 20:33 1
        
        what did you try? -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:36
        
        i dont know. i ttrusted the doc and my wife, only an rn then - Truman Jun 8, 20:26
    - you're going to lay him while on meds? - zork Jun 8, 20:14 1
      - well, I already am. but I don't like tru in *that* way. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 20:51
  - I'm listening -- nm - Deanna Troi Jun 8, 20:07
- yep - zork Jun 8, 19:58
- very hard but worth it. -- nm - loosilu Jun 8, 19:47

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