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In response to
"so where do I find this dude? -- nm"
by
loosilu
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Where you least expect it. In the last place you look. Etc, etc.
Posted by
TWuG
Jul 13 '10, 22:05
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You won't find a guy if you don't socialize. Go out with friends. Find some hobbies that take you outside or to where people congregate.
You are NOT going to find a bar called "Loosi's Man is Here Tonight, 3 Hours Only."
There isn't a "soul mate" out there that is eluding you. There're dozens of men who if you give one of them a chance can become your "soul mate" over time.
Meet people. Do a dating thing where you meet a dozen men over an hour's time.
You are looking for a simple answer to something that isn't simple. Date. Some will not work out. Keep dating.
Find that guy who enjoys your quirks and has quirks you enjoy. He is looking for you, too, but he won't find you if you find reasons not to look for him.
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