In response to
"Advice, please: I just received an offer of wedding day help from my hairdresser sister-in-law. I had a falling out with my brother 2 or so yrs ago "
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kelly
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the less stressy choice would be not letting her do it, right?
Posted by
b. (aka starrynit)
Jul 19 '10, 14:36
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"thank you for the offer, but I already have someone booked. I'm really looking forward to spending time with you just relaxing and having fun."
something like that?
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big time -- nm
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loosilu
Jul 19, 14:39
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Until my mother starts the guilt trip - yeah, probably the less stressy choice.
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kelly
Jul 19, 14:38
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That makes it tricky. This may be indelicate but, is she a good hair stylist? I mean, if she isn't, that makes the decision easier.
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musubi
Jul 19, 14:40
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if you are leaning to letting her help, I'd suggest spending time with her ahead of the wedding.
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b.
Jul 19, 14:40
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plus, I think it is touchy to mend things with her and not your brother. -- nm
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loosilu
Jul 19, 14:40
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tell your mom you want the family to just enjoy themselves, not work on the big day. -- nm
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loosilu
Jul 19, 14:39
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^workus interruptus. *nods to mus.* -- nm
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b.
Jul 19, 14:37
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